because it isn't stupidity to do selfless deeds for that other person. eh ano naman kung bugbog na puso mo sa pagod? i guess at the end of the day, you just have to take a rest, take some precious time to recover and get up again and do what you think you need to do.
sabi nga, simple lang ang konsepto ng space-time ng physics. nothing ever exactly happens twice. kahit pa sabihin mong parang naulit lang ang mga pangyayari at mga bagay-bagay, hindi pa rin. kasi nga, you only get that one chance in that specific space and at that exact time. kaya nga bakit kailangan pang isipin kung tama o mali ang gumawa ng selfless act of kindless sa taong importante sa yo? gawin na lang ng gawin.
of course there's always that chance that the person doesn't even know you've been stretching yourself thin para sa kanya. eh posible talaga yun. baka dense lang talaga or sobrang self-absorbed wala nang nakikita or posibleng bina-block lang because kailangan. pero at least ikaw, alam mo.
yun lang naman talaga ang mahalaga, yung alam mong ginawa mo lahat dahil you care enough to do something while you have the chance. pag finally you decide that you've done everything you could na and you want to move on there'll be no question in your mind that you finally discovered what unconditional love truly means.